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Epilogue
Why?
Why did we leave the relative security of our life in
Budapest for the uncertainty of the unknown? I'm sure
everyone who left Hungary had their personal reasons, but I
am also certain that those reasons are not too different
from ours.
Let's look at our lives in Budapest. My mother and I
lived with my grandparents in a spacious apartment. My
mother had a decent job and attended technical school at
night. My grandfather worked in a bank and also did extra
work at home. We had everything we needed; I was attending a
good public school, went to camp every summer and vacationed
with my mother at Lake Balaton for two weeks every year. We
certainly never went hungry and always had nice clothes. My
mother had a large circle of friends with whom we frequently
went on outings on weekends. My grandfather took me to
museums, baths, the zoo and the amusement park. Since
Communism officially frowned on religion, we were reasonably
safe from the ravages of anti-Semitism.
Click here to read more about my
life before the revolution.
So why would we want to leave?
It is forbidden. For a young, adventurous
person like my mother, the most overbearing reason for
wanting to leave is because it is forbidden. If a person is
locked up, he will want to escape. Why the Communist regime
chose to lock people in is a mystery to me; if the
border had remained permanently open, few would have
bothered to leave. But close the border and now everyone
wants to leave. Hungarians were even willing to make
Communism work, but the tyranny of the Soviet-backed regime
was unacceptable. Now, a rare opportunity presented itself;
the chance of a successful escape was good and this chance
may never occur again. It's now or never. If we
hesitate now, we will surely regret it.
Everyone is doing it. This was the "in
thing" to do, particularly since my mother's best friend
left early on, in November. Many of our other friends left
also. When word came that they all made it safely, the urge
to follow suit was irresistible.
Freedom, Security. To intellectuals, the
thought of not being able to read great authors or speak our
minds freely is tantamount to imprisonment, for it imprisons
the soul. The New World - America, Canada, Australia - would
go to war to preserve these freedoms. This notion was very
appealing, indeed. Imagine, a whole army would fight so the
citizens would remain free. The Old World, particularly the
Soviet-led Communist world, represents tyranny,
savagery, persecution and immorality, while the New World
represents enlightenment, justice and peace. From behind the
Iron Curtain, the West appeared to embody everything that's
good, while the East embodied everything that's evil. We
would feel much more secure in the Western environment .
Economics. Certainly, the prospect of a
higher standard of living was tempting. The lure of owning a
car and a TV, being able to travel, see foreign films, drink
Coke and chew gum filled our thoughts. Foreign films and
music, chewing gum and drinking Coke were all banned in
Hungary because it was called "hooliganism". The regime
claimed that these innocent pursuits promote immoral
behavior among young people; as if the Communist regime
practised moral behavior!
Educational Opportunity. The Communist
policy was that only children of working class or peasant
families could attend university and be eligible for good
jobs. Since my grandfather, who was murdered by the Nazis
during the war, had a small business prior to the war, we
were considered "bourgeois" and thus I would never have
been allowed to attend college. Since our family considered
higher education an absolute necessity, this situation was
unacceptable.
Freedom of Religion. As I mentioned earlier,
Jews were relatively safe in 1956. However, with Europe's
history of anti-Semitism and the untenable stability of
Communism, we felt it was just a metter of time that we
would be persecuted again. I wish this fear were unfounded,
but recent developments in Eastern Europe seem to bear out
the validity of this fear. As countries threw off the
vestiges of Soviet-style Communism and freedom of religion
and expression returned, anti-Semitism is beginning to
re-emerge.
So there you have it. One story out of the 200,000 who
escaped from Hungary in 1956. Even the 200,000 is but a
fraction of the millions of untold stories of people who
left their native lands to start a new life in a New
World.
I hope you enjoyed my story. Please sign
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